I have worked for a group home company for 11 years. I started off with the boss when he owned a few homes now the company has grown. I have always worked overnights. For some reason I seem to bring out the worst jealousy in people, especially women. That is why I work nights alone.
I come to work on time everyday, do my job to the best of my ability to a point where it seems I am the only one doing the overnight cleaning etc. and I am constantly bashed by an administrator at the head office my boss now has. There are house cleanliness checks done on days I work, but hardly ever other overnights where nothing is done. They nitpick always to find something wrong no matter how much I scrub, scrape, type and file.
The manager lead person now also has jealous tendencies reporting false accusations. They put up cameras 2 years ago and I am written up every other week for anything — that I sat down, that I was not in view of camera, that I opened cupboards, or even that I didn’t smile at the meeting or that I looked at my phone. I am constantly abused by the coordinator yelling ‘look at me when I’m speaking to you!’ She clearly has a deep rooted hatred for me, almost like how dare you black b***.
My boss has been fed so many lies and negativity that he doesn’t even help or care about me anymore. We were very close at one time while he was building his company now I’ve been just fed to the wolves whose only ambition is make my life a living hell. I feel if I go somewhere else it’s always like this for me.
To read the answer, click here: What to do when your boss picks on you
I started to suffer from this as well right after I left work in 2008 , and I started to suffer from a pattern of getting a job and then leaving it after some time, the last job I was able to maintain lasted ( 9 months) from 2009 till 2010. once I noticed that the minute I was able to get a job I tried hold up to it, I was fired from previous two jobs without any honest explanation, of course I was doing my job to the fullest.
despite of being nice and friendly people tend to hate me, this is some sort of negative energy that comes with the person, I don’t know how this happened to me but its happening, even when I flew to UAE(Dubai) to job hunt, having an excellent cv and portfolio (art director), at some point during the interview the hr person either would show no interest or simply just say the formalities and leave.
right now within couple of days I am leaving back to Lebanon and I have no idea what to do, perhaps re-apply
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